I'm lost and need help.

[Joel Fraser]

Hello, I'm not sure if I'm in the right place, but I need someone to talk to. I took a new job in Kansas, and brought my girlfriend of 10 years with me. We got married with dreams of new money and a life together. I bought a home. I work 6 day's a week, sunday's off, so left her to handle the bills. Months into my work here, I start getting calls about bills not being paid. I confronted her, only to find boxes of unopened bills, but money being spent to the last cent on god knows what. I went to an attourney, he said trust me, give me a few thousand and we will fix it with bankruptycy, by the way, don't pay any body any thing. A few thousand more, and I said enough is enough. I went to my lender, how far are you behind... about 9 months now. Well, you need x amount to come current. There's no way I could do that. So, forclosure procedings. I called loss mitigation, sorry, sherrif's sale allready done, another letter I didn't see. They said call the attourny, I did, he said call the new mortgage holder, coldwell. I asked if I could re finance. The answere was we will get back to you. When they did, a few day's ago, my mortgage was given to countrywide. I can't find a person to talk to there. I was given the option by coldwell to sell, short sale, re-finance or walk away. I have a wife, dog and 4 cat's that need a home by this wednesday. Just got a call from my mom, that my father who I haven't seen in 7 years had another fall. He fell 6 months ago, broke his hip, and I was too broke and caught up with trying to work enough to pay the bills, so I didn't go. Now, he's broken the other side, the ball joint in the hip went through the hip to his stomach, He's in trauma hospitol in detroit, and I'm in kansas. I need to go home and see him, yet I have to have my family in a home by wednesday. I'm confused, depressed, and affraid. I don't know who to talk to or what to do. I'm sorry for such a burden to put on this web site. Any advice or direction would be so helpful. I pray every day for the strenght, courage and direction. Maybe I can find it here. Bless you all. Warmest Regards, Marty